She’s 41 years old … Divorced… With 4 Small Kids… and… Men DAYDREAM about her.Discover the mysterious “Campfire Effect” that draws men like a moth to a flame.
Hi, my name is Bob Grant and you’re about to see how a 41 year old single mom named Anna with 3 small children went from divorced, single, alone and hopeless to… having men constantly pursuing her everywhere (including the elevator! ).
Until She Chose the One Special Man Who Stood Out From All the Others
The one man who promised to “love her forever” and finally convinced her to be his.
I’m also going to show you why so many of the things you’ve been told that attract a man are wrong.
- Why being positive and upbeat all the time actually makes him ignore your needs.
- So many women open their hearts to a man because he tells them he loves them and promises his devotion.
- And yet these same women often miss this key warning sign.
In fact, they actually tell women exactly the OPPOSITE of what they need. So I’m going to tell you exactly what a man wants, even though most men don’t even realize this themselves.
Most men tell women that they want them to more laid back and easy going and not to complain. Yet that’s just what Anna did before she started working with me and the man she loved still left her, even though she gave him exactly what he told her he wanted.
Based on her experience, and hundreds of other clients in my private practice I decided to take all of my clinical training as a licensed Professional and began doing research to find the hidden emotional key that made a man want to connect with a woman on a deep emotional level and stay committed to her.
Even if she wasn’t the prettiest, thinnest or anything that Cosmo magazine said she should be. I’ve been doing this for 20 years now and I’ve cracked the Bonding Code for thousands of women.I even found research that spoke to this when I discovered the editor of Psychology Today, T George Harris who said that while money, looks and social status make a woman more appealing…
None of Those Traits Compared to This 1 Quality. . Which I’ll Share With You in a
Alfred Adler, who worked with Sigmund Freud, also described this almost mystical quality nearly 100 years ago that enabled a woman to captivate a man, almost without even trying and yet so few women have ever been told about it’s truly hypnotic effect on men…until now
What is so amazing is that this works for you…
Even if You don’t have the body of a Victoria Secret lingerie model.
Even if You’re 21 or 55.
Even if you’re Tall, short blonde brunette or whatever trait you feel holds you back from experiencing the love and attention from a man that you’ve always wanted.
So I need you to pay close attention to this ENTIRE message right now. Because if you miss just one second of what I’m about to share with you… just ONE PART… this Bonding Code might not work. This is the EXACT same formula that I shared with Anna on our first visit. (Yes, the same Anna I mentioned at the beginning who was 41, divorced and had two kids and no self-confidence to date).
10 years earlier, she sat at a fancy restaurant with beautiful music playing when Tyler got up out of his chair, bent down on one knee and ask her to be his forever. Stunned and speechless, she started to cry with tears of joy as she said yes to his proposal.When they were married she knew she’d picked the right man for her and wanted to make sure she was the wife he had always wanted.
So she did what she thought a man would like. She almost always agreed to his sexual advances while being both positive and upbeat, most of the time. In fact Tyler often bragged to other couples that she was one of the most giving women he had ever known.
All Seemed Well Until One Fateful Morning…
She was making her morning coffee when Tyler came into the kitchen and sat down at the table…and waited. At first, she thought nothing of this until she turned around and saw him staring off into space.
For a moment he didn’t say anything, until he took a deep breath and uttered the words that punched her in the stomach:
“I’m sorry, but I think we should separate.
The words cut her like a knife as a sense of both fear and numbness engulfed her.
Tyler never offered her a reason except to say that something was missing and he couldn’t stay with her any longer. In the coming days her mind raced from thoughts of fear to anger and then back to fear as the questions kept racing through her mind…
But the understanding she wanted never came as she went from begging him to stay to accepting the cold reality that he would never return.
Fast Forward 8 Months and You Wouldn’t Recognize This Same Woman
One afternoon she went to see her attorney and entered the elevator to his 14th floor office. When she got in she pushed the button for her floor and noticed a man who was busy talking to someone on his cellphone.
As the elevator began it’s ascent, he stopped his call and glanced at her, then looked away. She felt a nervous twinge then not a moment later she was shocked when he said, “I’m sorry, but I don’t normally do this. I don’t know if I’ll ever see you again so I wanted to ask you if I could call you sometime. ”
As the elevator came to her floor she just knew the look of complete shock was draped all over her face, but somehow she managed to say, “Oh, thank you but I’m afraid I’ve got to go. ”
She tried to dismiss her experience as something random, until 2 weeks later at a friend’s dinner party. She had reluctantly agreed to go and didn’t feel especially social, yet that evening 2 men were captivated by her every word. The attention was almost overwhelming for her as each ask her when they would see her again.
No longer was she broken and despondent, and in the coming weeks she had men calling her constantly and begging her to spend time with her. The doubts that haunted her just a few months ago now seemed almost silly.
As a Woman it is Critical That You
Understand a Man’s Emotional Needs More
Than He Does or Else He’ll Pull You into
What I Call the “Giving Pit. ”
This is the unconscious and destructive urge within a man that is only happy when you’re doing something to please him. It is as dangerous as a Vampire that drains the very life out of a helpless young woman. And here’s the big trap. He will EVEN say this is what he wants. But don’t listen and don’t give in!
You must never fall into this pit. You know, where you give into what he wants because you think it will make him happy.
That it will keep him devoted to you.
That it will make him love you.But here’s what’s tragic about this, as logical as that sounds, giving too much to a man doesn’t make him love you, it will make him despise you. Even though that’s often exactly what a man tells you he wants!
This is why I’m going to share with you something that is counter intuitive to everything even men tell you they want in a woman.
Because if you let him keep pulling you down that path to the “Giving Pit” you’re actually increasing the chance that he might leave you.
You Must Be Accommodating So that He’ll Think Your Easy Going and Fun…
But that doesn’t work because it actually trains him to think you’re willing to do whatever he wants. And what makes this so bad is that he’ll just assume all you care about is his needs, his happiness with nothing left for you.
Kind of like you’re his mother… doting on him… caring only about his needs… with your sole purpose focused on making sure he’s happy.
You’ve Been Told to Never Get Angry with a Man Because it’s Such a Turn Off….
But the truth is that never getting angry with a man actually makes him get bored with you. The reason is this: Men live by this motto –
And the Worst Thing You’ve Been Told: The More You Give to a Man the Deeper He’ll Love You.
- Only calling you when he’s in the mood.
- Having his desire for you go hot and cold, for no apparent reason.
- Expecting you to be positive and upbeat…all the time.
For years I’ve had to help my clients destroy these myths because I saw how it pulled them into the “Giving Pit. ”
Yet there were a few women that had a special quality that kept them out of this deep pit. One woman who had this quality was Rosa who came to see me because of a family issue, but in our conversation mentioned that she was so tired of “all of these men hitting on me. ” Now that’s something I didn’t hear that often, so I took notice of why men would “hit on her. ” Was she beautiful?Well, yes….but certainly not striking.
She didn’t especially dress “girly” and wasn’t overly flirtatious. In fact she didn’t even know how she did it and certainly didn’t “try” and attract men.
That effortless quality to glow and charm a man without even trying.
- Without having to give into a man’s demands just to please him.
What she described is almost identical to a few rare and mysterious women throughout history that have used this campfire effect to produce an almost dream like trance over men.
Cleopatra is considered to be almost mythical in her beauty but when I researched her I found something quite different.
Her looks are never described as stunning or breath taking like Helen of Troy, but what she possessed was an ability to charm men. She had a quality that was so powerful, that men were willing to go to war for her, if that’s what she desired.
A More Modern Example is the Graceful
Perhaps you know her better as the wife of the famous actor, Robert Downey Jr. who was thought to be untamable until he met her.His drug usage and womanizing is legendary….even by Hollywood standards. Yet, after turbulent affairs with actresses Marisa Tomei, Jennifer Jason Leigh and Sarah Jessica Parker (and countless others) everything came crashing down one fateful day. Out of his mind on Cocaine, he had wandered in to his neighbor’s home and fell asleep in her 11-year-old son’s empty bed, but not before he had undressed to his underpants.
Shortly after this, as fate would have it, he would meet the woman that would change his life forever.
To This Day He Admits That All of His Success Would Mean Nothing Without Her by His Side.
43-Year Old Single Mother Has Younger Men
“Dear Bob, My boyfriend and I had a conflict over behavior that I felt was inappropriate. I spoke to him exactly how you taught me and he was quiet and ATTENTIVE to everything I said. In fact he said to me, “What can I do so the next time I don’t hurt you the way I hurt you tonight? ” He really wanted to make me feel better, he wanted to please me. It was exactly how you described it would be. Nathalie Mourin *
I don’t know how long this info will be online. I’m giving away so much free relationship information that I may end up making this a paid presentation, so I’m not sure how much longer I can leave it up.
For the Last 15 Years I’ve Been Teaching Women About the Mysterious Mind-Heart Connection That Produces “The Campfire Effect.”
This effect makes a man not only notice you, but feel an irresistible desire to be close to you.
Think about a campfire on a cool winter day. You can feel the warmth of the heat as your eyes are fixated on the dancing flames.It’s so comfortable that you could stay there, just looking into the fire for hours.
That’s what a man will feel when you learn to harness the power of “The Campfire Effect. ”
The secret to creating desire isn’t to make a man feel good, it’s to create tension. To make him so uncomfortable that he’ll only feel better when he’s with you. Remember a man needs to feel that he caught you to be able to bond with you.
Tip #2: Never Argue
Never argue with a man, but not for the reason you think. The problem with arguing is that it’s not POWERFUL enough. When you’re upset with him you want him to not only understand you, but FEEL why you’re upset and I can show you how.
Tip #3: Give Less Than You Receive
Always give back less to a man that you receive. For men the prize isn’t how much you give, it’s being able to make you happy.When you try and give as much as he does then you’re innocently acting like a man.If you’re not good at receiving, then you’ll actually teach a man to stop giving to you.
Now I love helping people, but unfortunately I only have time to work with so many women in my private practice… But I want to help even MORE so I’ve taken all of the best insights that my clients have told me works again and again and put it together in one amazing program.
It’s called “The Woman Men Adore”
I created this proven 5 step process that has helped hundreds of my private clients go from tired and frustrated with men to having the man they’ve always wanted treat them with such passion and devotion that many tell me personally that it’s “exhilarating.” In fact, what makes this program both powerful and life-changing is that I’ll show you how to release those qualities within yourself that men simply can’t resist.
Whether you’re single or married, you’ll soon notice how men begin to look at you longingly and listen to your every word. All without having to play those silly relationship games that make you feel like you’re in high school.
Instead, You Just Need to Follow My Proven Process in These 5 Easy Modules.
|Module 1:||The 1 Critical Emotion Men Need To Fall In Love|
In Module 1 I’ll show you why all your efforts to be attractive, desirable and appealing won’t mean anything unless a man can feel this 1 emotional response from you.
What I’ve discovered is that often women accidentally hide this quality and give men the impression that they are cold and detached.
- Why 99% of women don’t even realize the dangerous signals they send off to men that make them appear desperate. Hint: Most women don’t realize how easy it is to give a man the wrong impression.
- The critical mistake most women make when a man compliments them.It’s such a turn off that it can make a man can go from being attracted to repulsed in just 1 second.
- 5 things men crave that women don’t know about that create an unconscious connection with a man.It’s so exhilarating he’ll find himself going out of his way just to be around you.
- The Kiss of Death in a relationship – Once this enters his heart, he is almost certain to leave you…unless you know this proven cure!
- Want to get him to open up? Just use these 3 words and watch him pour out his heart to you…and only you.
|Module 2:||His Deepest Desire In A Woman|
Inside Module 2 I’ll share with you something that’s completely counter intuitive to everything you’ve been taught about what makes a man look at you with love and desire. Inside you’ll learn:
- How to make a man instantly drop what he’s doing and listen to you whenever you’re upset. The secret is how to tap into the one emotion that makes him feel like he can’t rest until you’re happy.
- Why words are for women but men respond to something entirely different. In fact, when you use this magical “tone” you’ll make him powerless to refuse your request. It’s so intoxicating he’ll feel like he’s been hypnotized and can’t stop himself from saying, “Yes. ”
- How to share your feelings with a man so that he’ll beg you to tell him more.
- Why trying to be his equal will kill the romantic spark but doing this 1 thing will create sparks of passion in his eyes for you.
- How to respond when you’re upset with a man so he’ll listen to you. Why yelling, crying and threatening doesn’t work, but do exactly as I show you and he’ll not only listen to you but actually feel your pain as well.
|Module 3:||What to expect in the coming Days – The Transformation Process|
Then in module 3 you’ll learn what to expect in the coming days and weeks as men suddenly begin noticing the difference in you as you learn …
- How to use an unconscious trigger that disarms a man and makes him want to come closer to you. One client used this and forgot to turn it off when suddenly until a man in an elevator suddenly “hit” on her….when she wasn’t even paying attention to him.
- The 3 sentence technique that renders a man powerless to resist your request. It works like a charm. All you have to do is say 3 sentences to him — I give the exact word-for-word “script”.
- Tired of picking the wrong guys? You can know if he’s worth giving your heart to, but only if you pay attention to this 1 personality clue. It’s the most proven predictor of how he’ll treat you in the future.
- Why being a little selfish actually makes you more adorable and no, you won’t become a witch…but ONLY if you do it exactly how I show you on page 101.
|Module 4:||Simple Changes That Trigger Arousal In a Man|
Then in Module 4 I’ll give you detailed behaviors and tips that men find attractive that most women would never realize.Specifically, I’ll show you…
- The “ON” button game that will drive him wild with desire. What’s more…You’ll have him wrapped around you’re little finger when he begs you to play it over and over again.
- Want to make a man feel protective of you and attentive to your needs? You can…but only if you meet his deepest, almost primitive raw emotional need. He’ll feel so addicted to you that he’ll never even think of looking at another woman.
- Don’t talk to him like he was one of your girlfriends. Do this instead…use my “reflective listening” technique and watch his head turn toward you and hang on your every word.
- The part of your body that will make him fantasize about you, yet so many women hide it from men. No, it’s not your breasts, legs or derrière. Use this part of your body to the hilt and he’ll be dripping with desire for you.
- How to instantly disarm a man with this simple change in how you speak to him. Warning – You must use this carefully!
|Module 5:||Your Dream Comes True – He’ll Cherish You Always|
- Why HELPING your man is the worst thing you can do when he’s upset. What he’s really hoping is that you’ll know how to say this magical phrase that melts his heart and makes him realize you are the only woman for him.
- How to make a man not only hear what you say, but feel it as well. It’s so potent every married woman will do anything to prevent their man from having you accidentally use it on him.
- The one thing you can wear that will make him notice you instantly and no, it’s not 6 inch heels or black lingerie. You probably have one of these in your closet and never realized it’s power to make the man you’ve always wanted notice you in a crowded room.
- What most women do accidentally that makes a man feel like you’re his mother – and how to never let that happen to you.
- and. .How to melt his anger so that he’ll go from furious to cuddly….in less than 5 minutes
I’ve Watched My Private Clients Go From Tired and Discouraged to Having More Attention From Men Than They’ve ever Experienced After Going Through These 5 Modules
It’s So Simple That Here’s What Happened for These Women Who Tried The Woman Men Adore:
With specific real life examples and practical tips and suggestions, you won’t have to guess about what to do, because I’ve done all the work for you.
Paige used the “On” button technique and suddenly her husband began asking her how he could help out around the house.
Cynthia realized that she had been using the #1 relationship killer on all of her boyfriends and by making 1 simple change married the next man she dated.
Gretchen was using the unconscious trigger and found herself being approached by a gentleman in a hotel lobby.
I’ve heard these stories from my clients for years as they’ve gone through The Woman Men Adore Program and many have paid over $1000 to have me personally teach them what I’m offering you.The reason they continue to come see me as a client AND tell their girlfriends to come see me is simply…what I teach works like nothing else. So when I created this program I wanted to make it affordable for as many women as I could and we decided to offer a deep discount of 80% for the low price of $197.
In fact for the level of training that you’ll receive this is just a fraction of the true value for The Woman Men Adore but even with that, I want every woman to have a man’s undying devotion so I’m going to make this even easier for you.
Because I’ve seen the results for myself in person, from women who’ve suddenly experienced the love and attention from men that they’ve always hoped for, I want to make sure you have the same chance to experience this for yourself.
Even though this Life Changing Program is greatly discounted at $197, I’m going to take away any excuse you have for not giving it a try. So I’m going to offer this package…
Not even for $67
Yes, I realize that I’m offering this at a fraction of what my private clients typically pay and that it’s only 80 cents a day to just try The Woman Men Adore.
That’s Less Than You Spend on a Cup of Coffee at Starbucks
So Why Would I Make Such a Generous Offer?
Because every week I meet with women who had their heart broken by the man they loved or with others who can’t find a man who wants to commit to them.
I have to look in their eyes and watch the pain as they describe what it’s like to have a man leave them…and they don’t know why. So follow this link to find out more.